Why Homeschooling Was Not Right For Us

Teachers Appreciation Week

The whole idea of homeschooling was amazing to me, there’s the benefit of one on one teaching, the lack of peer pressure and bullying, and being able to freely teach the Word of God without anyone being offended! All of this had me ready to get started ASAP.

I thought I had everything sorted, I already knew what I wanted to teach and we have plenty of school supplies around and a nice space to work in. My notice of intent was printed out and ready to be mailed in, but this was when the nerves began for me because having the letter in my hands made it real.

I knew my son already did well in school other than a few small issues in the social atmosphere. Mainly he did well and loved school. So this was just something (I) Mom randomly wanted to try out and it made me feel like he was the guinea pig so to speak. But the next day the letter was sent out anyway and I thought to myself “Here we go, I guess this is really it.” that same evening I walked into his school to check him out… I just so happened to get there during P.E. so before walking into the gym to collect my son and shake up his world, I stopped a moment to watch him through the glass window playing and having an amazing time with all of his friends and classmates all of which I was now about to force him to say goodbye to in the very next moment. I felt regret already but I went in any way and the look on his face told me this was the biggest mistake I could make. I checked him out and we went back home to mentally process what just happened.

That evening and night was the hardest time ever trying to get to sleep it was horrid, and I felt like throwing up. (Talk about having a gut feeling there!) Before crying myself to sleep I finally decided to call the superintendent first thing in the morning to see what I could do to fix this mess that I had caused!

The phone rang a couple of times and someone finally picked up, I had to be re-directed. a lady then answered and I remained calm and told her what had happened. I thought it would be a big complicated ordeal trying to get him back into school. but the voice on the other end said: “That is fine I’ll make a note to disregard the letter and that your son will still be attending public school.” I could finally breathe a sigh of relief! and after thanking her I hung up the phone and went straight to tell my son the news! It didn’t seem like a big deal at first which is why I wanted to make this post in the first place. anyone who is considering homeschool, please know that this is an extremely heavy decision to make and while it may be easier for some than it was me. Just make sure you weigh all of the pros and cons before mailing in that letter!





7 thoughts on “Why Homeschooling Was Not Right For Us

  1. I’m glad that you have peace about it.
    And you’re not alone, because our daughter in the last couple of days also reconsidered home schooling, and re enrolled our 11 year old granddaughter into public school.

    Keep focused on His grace as you do, and Lord bless y’all.

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    1. I’m certainly glad about it too! I think the tween years are a difficult time to make that choice and that people should probably start young, I guess everyone’s reason and situation is different though. Thank you!

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  2. I’ve known several families that have home-schooled their children with great results. I found your post refreshing. You found it was not for you and your son at this time, and you reversed your decision. It’s marvelous that it worked out well for both of you.

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  3. We have been very heavily weighing our options. I’m researching like crazy in all my free time. Our middle daughter is gifted and a meeting with her teacher has taken me on this adventure, down the proverbial rabbit hole. We plan to trial homeschooling during summer to see if it’s a good fit. She wanted to begin immediately but I needed this time to think things through and research everything. I’m glad that you made the best decision for your child. I’m trying so hard right now to do the same. Thanks for sharing this!


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